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Take Laughter Seriously

8/31/2015

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While being tossed around (literally) from public school to public school for most of my childhood, I learned quickly that it was pretty difficult for people to beat me up when they were laughing. I decided early on that my best bet for survival was to introduce myself as the class clown right from the start and as it turned out, nobody really wanted to fight me for that title. By the time I graduated from high school, I had become very proficient at this skill and this proficiency would shape the rest of my life. Looking back on my adolescence recently, I pondered why this strategy had worked so well for me and decided to do a little research into this phenomenon we call laughter.

Everywhere in the world, human babies start laughing all on their own between the ages of 2 and 4 months. What I mean by that is that no one actually teaches them, they just laugh. Research shows that even deaf and blind babies start laughing on that same time table. Laughter researcher Robert Provine, a neuroscientist, has speculated that laughter may have been one of the original forms of human communication. 
Early humans may have laughed as a way to bond with their fellow tribe members or to let someone they came in contact with know that they were not aggressive. Laughter is definitely a social activity. Just try to maintain laughter (real or fake) for any significant amount of time by yourself. If you can do it, you’re probably suffering from a severe form of schizophrenia.

Believe it or not, human beings are not the only animals that laugh. In fact, all mammals have the ability to express themselves through laughter. Just give a good listen to dogs chasing one another in the yard. You’ll hear them making a panting sound that is unique to play. Professor Provine believes that this “pant, pant, pant” sound is what eventually evolved into ha, ha ,ha in humans. A study by another neuroscientist found that even rats (Yes, they are mammals.  I googled it.) laugh when they are tickled.

 In 2006, a team of British neuroscientists proved that laughter may truly be contagious. They were able to demonstrate that simply hearing laughter triggers brain responses that cause you to laugh, which in turn causes other people to laugh and so on and so on... It’s a lot like when you witness someone else yawning and then you feel compelled to yawn. It turns out that laughing is actually an involuntary response much like breathing, except that it is triggered by outside stimulus as opposed to the need to survive.

Although the study of laughter is in its infancy, Dr. Michael Miller has found that our blood vessels regard stress and positive emotional behavior such as laughter as opposites.  It’s been shown that laughter appears to expand or dilate the blood vessels, but stress constricts, which is a known contributing factor of heart disease. It’s also been found that people who laugh on a regular basis tend to live 8-10 years longer than those who don’t.

The truth is that laughing makes us feel good. As human beings, we are more greatly affected by positive expressions from others than by negative. This strong reaction gives laughter the ability to override most, if not all, of our negative emotions. The term “breaking the ice” actually means to lighten up a tense or uncomfortable situation by making someone laugh. There is even an extreme form of contagious laughter that has been spreading through churches across North America called “Holy Laughter”. The followers of holy laughter believe that God laughs through them (watch out speaking in tongues) and they often fall to the floor laughing uncontrollably.

If you’re feeling like you don’t have enough laughter in your life or you’d just like to live a bit longer, just take this advice that my dear sweet mother so often gave to me; “GET THE HELL OUT OF THE HOUSE AND GO PLAY WITH YOUR FRIENDS”. I promise dude, if you take that to heart you will live a long life full of boundless joy and much laughter.



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Lydia Jetson
7/23/2020 10:15:38 am

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!
Good advice Dude!

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    The Grateful Dude

    In my formative years, I was lucky enough to attend an amazing high school modeled after the freedom school from the Billie Jack films. The curriculum included outdoor education, pottery and organic farming and emphasized values like creativity, self awareness and a strong sense of community. I spent several summers traveling from show to show with The Grateful Dead and found that not only could I beat the crap out of a plastic bucket in a drum circle, I was also quite the imported beer salesman. My early career started off in the eighties driving limousine for posers, drug dealers and wannabe rock stars in Los Angeles. In the late eighties, I was introduced to the former owner of Paradise Lakes Nudist Resort who had just seduced and proposed to my roommate while she was on vacation in Florida. Fred took me aside one afternoon  and told me, “I like you, kid and since I’m taking your roommate and I’m pretty sure you can’t afford this beach rental on your own, why not come on out to Florida? I’ll find you a place to stay, give you a job and you’ll be surrounded by naked women”. So I loaded up my truck and moved to Paradise. Lakes, that is. Swimmin’ pools. Porno stars. (insert banjo solo here).

    I wake up every morning (well almost every morning) knowing that today is a wonderful gift to be unwrapped and explored. I believe that every day is filled with limitless possibilities and endless abundance. I’m convinced that our true purpose in life is to interact with our fellow beings and give witness to this amazing universe that surrounds us.

    If you are searching for miracles in life, you need go no farther than your backyard to realize that we are living in the midst of the greatest miracle of all.

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